Humanity · The Days You Cannot Skip

For parents, coaches and players · 12 minutes

Almost all the harm from a concussion comes from what happens in the fortnight afterwards, not from the knock itself.

A concussion is a functional injury: the scan is normal, nothing is broken, and the recovery is decided almost entirely by how the days afterwards are managed. That is unusually good news, because the management is free and it fits on a card. It is also where it goes wrong — a player who goes back on in the second half, a fortnight in a dark room, a return to training before a return to the classroom, and above all a teenager who says he is fine because saying so is how you stay in the team. Each of those choices looks like the fast route. This page exists to run them out day by day and show that they are the slow one.

Neverthe same day — no exceptions, at any age
24 hsymptom-free before each step up, not before all of them
48 hof relative rest, then gentle activity beats a dark room
The route that reaches full contact soonest and the route that reaches full clearance soonest are not the same route. That is the whole of concussion management, and it is the one thing a player who is desperate to play cannot see from inside the week.

The strategy race

Set out how this injury is going to be handled — five decisions, each of which real families and real clubs make differently — and the same injury is then run through the graded return twice: once under your decisions and once under the protocol. Both runs use one model of the same head. What you are looking for is not the total on its own but the gap between the day the player reaches the pitch and the day the player is actually recovered.

Nothing is saved and nothing is sent anywhere. The model is a teaching device, not a prognosis: a real recovery has a long tail this deliberately does not dramatise, and no web page can time an individual injury.

What a concussion actually is

The sentence that does most of the work. “If in doubt, sit them out.” It requires no diagnosis, no medical training and no certainty. A player removed unnecessarily loses one afternoon; a player left on with a concussion can lose a season, and in rare cases far more.

The signs that mean hospital now, not tomorrow

Call an ambulance or go straight to an emergency department if any of these appear at any point. These are not signs of a bad concussion; they are signs that something other than a concussion may be happening in there — bleeding, a skull or neck injury, a seizure.
  • Getting harder to rouse, confused and getting worse, or not making sense
  • Any loss of consciousness that lasted more than a moment, or a second one later
  • A seizure or convulsion
  • Repeated vomiting — more than once or twice
  • A headache that keeps getting worse rather than easing
  • Weakness, numbness or tingling in an arm or leg, unequal pupils, double vision, slurred speech
  • Neck pain or tenderness after the injury — do not move them; keep the head still and call for help
  • On anticoagulants, or a known bleeding disorder — be assessed the same day even if they seem well
  • Any concussion in a child under about five, or anyone you simply cannot settle

Everything else on this page assumes those have been excluded. A concussion without red flags is managed at home and on the training pitch, not in a hospital — but the red flags are checked for again that evening and again the next morning, because a few of them declare themselves late.

The dark room makes it worse, and that surprises everybody

Return to learn comes before return to play

The ladder, and the only rule it has

The graded return is six steps, and the single rule is that each step needs a day free of symptoms at that level before the next one. It is not six days of waiting: it is six steps, each of which can take longer.

  1. Symptom-limited daily activity. Normal life kept below the symptom threshold. School, walking, gentle chores.
  2. Light aerobic exercise. Walking or a stationary bike at an easy pace. No resistance training, nothing where a fall is possible.
  3. Sport-specific exercise. Running, skating, drills alone. Movement patterns, no head impact and no other bodies.
  4. Non-contact training drills. Passing, harder drills, resistance training. Everything except contact.
  5. Full contact practice — after medical clearance. This is the step that needs somebody qualified to say yes, because it is the first step where a second impact is possible.
  6. Return to competition.
If symptoms come back, drop to the previous step and try again after another symptom-free day. That is not a failure or a relapse; it is the protocol working exactly as designed. The step that provoked symptoms is simply not available yet, and it will be.

The player who says he is fine

“Sit down. You're not playing again today — that's not a punishment, it's the rule, and it applies to everyone.”

“Tell me honestly what's still not right this week. Your place is not at stake. Hiding it costs you more weeks than telling me does.”

What people believe, and what is actually so

Believed

  • A helmet prevents concussion
  • No blackout means no concussion
  • A normal scan means it wasn't a concussion
  • Wake them every hour through the night
  • Complete darkness and no screens until it clears
  • “He's a tough lad, he'll shake it off”
  • Second one is no worse than the first

Actually

  • Helmets prevent skull fractures, not concussion; mouthguards prevent dental injury
  • Most concussions involve no loss of consciousness at all
  • Scans look for bleeding; a concussion is invisible to them by definition
  • If the red flags are absent, let them sleep
  • Two days of relative rest, then gentle activity — strict rest is slower
  • Toughness is not a neurological property and cannot shorten this
  • A second impact before recovery is the one thing the protocol exists to prevent

The helmet point deserves its own line, because it changes behaviour: helmets are worth wearing and they are not concussion protection. A player who believes the helmet has it covered takes contact they would otherwise avoid, which is why better helmets have never produced fewer concussions.

Children and adolescents are a different case

On the sideline, in the next ten minutes

Do

  • Remove them immediately, before any assessment
  • Assume the neck is injured if there is any neck pain — do not move them
  • Stay with them; do not let them drive or cycle home
  • Tell the parent or partner what happened and hand over the red-flag list
  • Write down the time, the mechanism, and what you saw
  • Say out loud that they are not playing again today

Never

  • Let them back on “to see how it goes”
  • Ask “are you all right?” and accept the answer as an assessment
  • Use smelling salts or anything else to bring them round
  • Let them go home alone or sleep alone the first night without anybody knowing
  • Leave the decision to the player, the parent on the touchline, or the score
  • Treat the medical clearance step as a formality to be worked around

The drill: 16 decisions

Sixteen ordinary moments — a knock in the second half, a Tuesday when he says he is fine, a parent who wants the trial on Saturday, a teacher who wants to know what to change. Most have an instinctive answer that is kind and costs weeks. Pick your move; every answer explains why.

The card

Print it for the kit bag, the clubhouse wall, or whoever is with them tonight.

SUSPECTED CONCUSSION — THE FIRST FORTNIGHT

TODAY

  • Off, and not back on today. Any age, any level, any score
  • Neck pain? Do not move them. Keep the head still, call for help
  • No driving, no cycling, not alone tonight

HOSPITAL NOW IF

  • Harder to rouse, worsening confusion, seizure, repeated vomiting
  • Worsening headache, weakness or numbness, double vision, slurred speech
  • On blood thinners, or a child under about five

THE FIRST TWO DAYS

  • Relative rest: light, dull, boring. Not a dark room
  • Sleep is fine and does not need interrupting
  • Screens reduced, not banned

THEN, IN THIS ORDER

  • Gentle activity below the symptom threshold → school → sport
  • Six steps, 24 symptom-free hours per step, contact only after clearance
  • Symptoms back? Drop one step, try again tomorrow. That is the protocol working

THE SENTENCE FOR THE PLAYER

  • “Tell me what still isn't right. Your place is not at stake”
If in doubt, sit them out. An unnecessary substitution costs one afternoon; a missed concussion costs a season, and rarely much more.